Busting Excuses: Why You Deserve A Boudoir Experience

Busting Excuses

We often make excuses when we are nervous about something. We make up reasons why we can’t spend time on ourselves or our self-care. Work is busy, kids are busy, and life is busy. We also come up with excuses like “when I lose another 10 lbs or when I have some extra money, I’ll do a boudoir session.” I wanted to show you that I get it! I do, as a mother of four, a wife, and a business owner I find it hard to do things for myself as well. I have learned that I need to stop the excuses and value myself. I want to show you that you are worthy of loving yourself.

” I don’t have enough time”

I think it’s worth mentioning, that if you don’t take care of yourself first, you can’t take care of anyone else. Just like that old wise saying “love yourself before you can love anyone else”. If you are well and self loved, you can give more to the people around you that need you. I am famous for giving all of myself to everyone else and neglecting my own self care. I made it mandatory in my life to take time for myself daily and to commit to doing things for myself to keep my self care bucket full.

During a boudoir session, you’re able to slow down and spend time with yourself. Remember who you are as a person. Remember who you are as a women. Think about how freeing you could feel if you stopped comparing yourself to others and embraced the beauty you have.

Wouldn’t it be nice to take some time for yourself? Why not do it while getting all glammed up and do a boudoir session for yourself?

“I’m not where I want to be weight wise | I don’t fit the medias idea of an ideal size”

Did you know that only 5% of American females poses the body type portrayed in media? ONLY FIVE PERCENT! It goes without saying but I will say it, you don’t need to be a certain size to love yourself. You don’t need to fit random strangers ideas of the perfect body type. Who even comes up with the standards anyways? Why are we comparing ourselves to the models the media portrays when in reality, no two people are the same. You are amazing as you are, remember that.

I think its amazing when someone wants to better their health and have goals to become healthy. We all want to be at a healthy weight for our body and to feel good. Regardless of where we are in our own journeys, shouldn’t we love where we are in every stage? We should appreciate our body and what it has done and does for us daily. Be proud of who you are and where you are each and every day. Celebrating your body is an important part of self love. Book the session now so you can remember each part of your journey!

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“I never feel sexy or sensual so a boudoir session isn’t for me”


This is an excuse I hear often and it couldn’t be further from the truth. This excuse is exactly WHY you should book the session!

We often loose track of ourselves, our felinity, and our sexuality when life is crazy. Work is busy and the kids are exhausting, so we loose a lot of ourselves from time to time. It happens to everyone and its okay! It’s part of life, but its exactly why booking a boudoir session is for you! Ignite that sexy spark again and feel like the sexy bad-ass you are.

A boudoir session doesn’t REQUIRE super sexy lingerie. You don’t have to show off all your goods. There’s so many alternative ideas to a boudoir session that don’t have to be sexy lingerie. The boudoir session experience is to show you how beautiful you are regardless of what you choose to wear. I will gladly chat with you about outfit options that may be a better fit for you and your lifestyle!

“A boudoir shoot is an investment and I don’t have all the money right now”

Yes, boudoir sessions are an investment, but it’s also an investment in yourself. You’re not only investing in the session but in your well-being, self confidence, and so much more. I offer convenient payment plans that suit all budgets! In order to book your session there is a session fee, after that you can set up a payment plan to for the package you choose so that it might be easier to book a session! If you have any questions about my payment plans, send me an email while setting up your session date!

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